Les introvertis sont généralement plus sensibles aux stimulations extérieures que les extravertis. Pourtant, les grandes choses ne se construisent pas dans le brouhaha, mais bien plus souvent dans la solitude. And please don't judge all the sheep that are impressed by the aggressive blowhards and follow on their every word because they're just so damn charismatic, either. Pas plus que les extravertis. The reason is very simple; it is merely that the novel is more true than they are. I could easily go days without human contact.
It means I love process, not reward. It's in the store, but probably still in the storage room. This was a game-changing book for me, and I suspect it will be eye-opening to most people who read it. I used to think he was just an angry asshole but now I think he was an introvert with nowhere to unwind. So, here we are, visiting a friend's home and my daughter, who strangely enough is a huge extrovert the exact opposite of her parents , is struggling. Il faut le faire avec tact.
Note: The rest of this review has been withdrawn due to the recent changes in Goodreads policy and enforcement. Oh, another thing I intuitively knew but now have support for is brainstorming sessions. I read it for my hometown book club. Honestly, I felt that way before we reached the party, but things seemed to get much, much worse the moment we arrived. Needless to say, I hate being shy.
Ce texte est une merveilleuse contribution de Soyons clair, être introverti? Quiet seriously changed the way I think about myself. I am seeing my preferences in a new light and have much understanding and acceptance regarding the things that interest me and those that cause me stress. A lot of the time I felt like this book was written so introverts could feel validated for being an introvert and that they weren't anti-social. It's like, when I'm surrounded by people I don't or only barely know, I just go on lockdown. The academic back-up felt like a whole lot of cherrypicking.
Mon caractère a pesé lourdement sur le recrutement et même au-delà de mes diplômes. Sunglasses prevent others from seeing our eyes dilate with surprise or fear; we know from Kagan's work that a relaxed torso is a hallmark of low reactivity; and alcohol removes our inhibitions and lowers our arousal levels. À nous de nous faire notre propre opinion. I do want to contribute. Chaque tempérament a son avantage : sans les intrépides, on manquerait de nourriture, ou on ne découvrirait pas de nouveaux territoires nous permettant de nous développer. Hearing about yourself, finding out you're not alone, it can be a huge relief and release.
There were so many points of affirmation for me—things I intuitively knew. Ils gagnent à travailler ensemble. Les extravertis sont généralement excellents pour gérer de multiples taches à la fois et aller vite. Strength and conviction can present themselves quietly without sacrificing effectiveness. Les inciter, leur donner envie, sans les forcer. That is, you can be an introvert and still speak a lot and socialize frequently——it's just that, as an introvert, you will be more drained by social interaction.
Dans un tout autre domaine, pendant ma jeunesse, tous mes amis aimaient sortir en boite et moi pas et je me sentais vraiment en marge. Until I read this book. My spiel went something like this…… March 6th was Super Tuesday and I live in that Oh-so-much-talked-about-battle-ground-state of Ohio. Solve problems, make art, think deeply. And if this book had more of those moments, I might have actually wound up loving it. She also admits the worth of extroverts and how introverts greatly enjoy and need their company, both professionally and personally.
I actually think extroverts should be the one reading this book! I have always been an introvert, and it's a fundamental, sometimes limiting, part of who I am. Leurs résultats seront également plus authentiques, et moins influencés par le groupe. Turns out I'm not that weird. And as I made my way through the entire thing, I felt like I was learning more and more about myself. I do not find the book.